When it comes to sex and love, there-s no such thing as too much knowledge. No matter how much experience one has, there are always some things that were missed, some bits of information that did not reach him or her. And since most people have other things to do with their lives than striving to become a sort of walking sex and love encyclopedias, it follows that everybody needs tips now and then.

Among the physical expressions of love, kisses are very versatile tools in the emotional kit of any human being. From the short and tender kiss of a grandmother, to heads of state briefly touching their lips to each other-s cheeks and on to passionate lovers French kissing their way to a hot session of sex, it-s obvious that our lips can express many things.

And since the best kisses are those that come out right, some tips are in order for the use of people who either don-t get much practice or are not catching up fast on what they should do. Don-t laugh! Nobody was born knowing how to do this or that thing. We all have to learn.

While we can all be thankful to the French for opening the door to the intimate play of tongues (although it-s not clear whether the French kiss comes from Paris or not), kissing is actually a universal language that can be learnt by all people. Traditionally, French kissing has been associated with the Western world, from which it-s now spreading around the globe.

When preparing to go for the kiss, take your time for a reality check. Is the girl willing to go along with this or not? If you-re about to make your approach and the girl gets an embarrassed look on her face and starts fidgeting in her chair in what may be seen as an evasive maneuver, then pull back and give her some breathing space. Don-t rush things because you-re going to regret it.

First thing you need to know is that French kisses are not meant for the first date, unless, of course, the girl is quite the party animal and you both know that your date has only one purpose. In that case, anything goes if you can get away with it- even sex in the restaurant-s lavatory. Or if the girl is so clearly willing that there can be no mistake about it. But in all other cases, save French kissing either for the end of the date or for another date.

Two things that girls hate is to have guys shoving their tongues down their throats and to have their oxygen supply cut off during kissing. Therefore, you need to take care that you leave the girl enough room to breathe or to break the kiss every now and then. This will also help you, because you also need the oxygen. Two people kissing are sharing an intimate moment, not engaging in an endurance test or in a race to the death.

When actually going for the kiss, don-t charge with your tongue sticking out or your mouth. This can gross out even the hardcore promiscuous people. Put your lips against hers and only then let your tongue come out to play. And don-t stab her mouth with your tongue. Keep your cool and read her emotions. If she wants more passion or a little rough play, then go ahead and do what you think best. If not, then keep your tongue to yourself.

On the other hand, if both you and your partner find yourselves exhausted by a prolonged session of passionate kissing, then you are on the right path. It means that she enjoys your kisses and that she probably doesn-t mind going even further. Just remember to refrain from rushing things. The slow path is sometimes best.

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When it comes to sex and love, there-s no such thing as too much knowledge. No matter how much experience one has, there are always some things that were missed, some bits of information that did not reach him or her. And since most people have other things to do with their lives than striving to become a sort of walking sex and love encyclopedias, it follows that everybody needs tips now and then.

Among the physical expressions of love, kisses are very versatile tools in the emotional kit of any human being. From the short and tender kiss of a grandmother, to heads of state briefly touching their lips to each other-s cheeks and on to passionate lovers French kissing their way to a hot session of sex, it-s obvious that our lips can express many things.

And since the best kisses are those that come out right, some tips are in order for the use of people who either don-t get much practice or are not catching up fast on what they should do. Don-t laugh! Nobody was born knowing how to do this or that thing. We all have to learn.

While we can all be thankful to the French for opening the door to the intimate play of tongues (although it-s not clear whether the French kiss comes from Paris or not), kissing is actually a universal language that can be learnt by all people. Traditionally, French kissing has been associated with the Western world, from which it-s now spreading around the globe.

When preparing to go for the kiss, take your time for a reality check. Is the girl willing to go along with this or not? If you-re about to make your approach and the girl gets an embarrassed look on her face and starts fidgeting in her chair in what may be seen as an evasive maneuver, then pull back and give her some breathing space. Don-t rush things because you-re going to regret it.

First thing you need to know is that French kisses are not meant for the first date, unless, of course, the girl is quite the party animal and you both know that your date has only one purpose. In that case, anything goes if you can get away with it- even sex in the restaurant-s lavatory. Or if the girl is so clearly willing that there can be no mistake about it. But in all other cases, save French kissing either for the end of the date or for another date.

Two things that girls hate is to have guys shoving their tongues down their throats and to have their oxygen supply cut off during kissing. Therefore, you need to take care that you leave the girl enough room to breathe or to break the kiss every now and then. This will also help you, because you also need the oxygen. Two people kissing are sharing an intimate moment, not engaging in an endurance test or in a race to the death.

When actually going for the kiss, don-t charge with your tongue sticking out or your mouth. This can gross out even the hardcore promiscuous people. Put your lips against hers and only then let your tongue come out to play. And don-t stab her mouth with your tongue. Keep your cool and read her emotions. If she wants more passion or a little rough play, then go ahead and do what you think best. If not, then keep your tongue to yourself.

On the other hand, if both you and your partner find yourselves exhausted by a prolonged session of passionate kissing, then you are on the right path. It means that she enjoys your kisses and that she probably doesn-t mind going even further. Just remember to refrain from rushing things. The slow path is sometimes best.

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People kiss in many different ways. Passionate kisses, friendly kisses, playful kisses, all these variations depend on the moods and relationships between people. A swift kiss before leaving for work in the morning is very different from the longer kiss that precedes a night of passion. Kissing is fun most of the times and people whom you wouldn-t like to kiss can usually be kept at a distance. This is an act of intimacy that is not easily forced upon somebody.

The best known type of kiss is the French kiss. You can see it in every movie and is probably used by the largest part of young and adult lovers around the world. French kiss means that the two partners kiss with open lips and their tongues touch. I-m not sure if the French have actually been the first to kiss like that, but let-s say the name is a tribute to the city of lovers, Paris. The two partners can use their tongues to explore each other-s mouths. This is actually up to the imagination of the two people involved, since there are far too many ways in which the play of tongues can underscore tenderness and passion.

A good one is the kiss that is meant to surprise and to convey intensity, rather than tenderness. When your lover is working, sleeping or generally absorbed by something, plant a quick kiss on her lips by surprise. Be careful not to spoil the surprise. Kiss her hard (or light) and fast to show her that you love her and that you are in a playful mood. Afterwards you can choose between retreating and leaving her to her business or going for more kisses. A break from work has never hurt anybody.

Another kind of kiss much favored by passionate lovers focuses on the lips instead of the inside of the mouth. This is very much a kiss designed to convey a strong sense of passion and a lack of inhibitions. The basic idea is to suck gently on one of your partner-s lips. Since she is likely to have her mouth slightly open in expectation of a French kiss, this can be easily accomplished. Just pick one of the lips and suck gently on it for a second or two. Make sure you are very gentle about it because injuries are no fun.

A variation of the kiss described above is meant to add yet another twist to the passion that unfolds between you and her. While sucking on your lover-s lip, use your teeth to bite her lip very gently. Just nip on it, don-t go for a full fledged bite. This type kiss should be used by lovers who have kissed before. It-s not exactly the kind of thing one does on the first date.

The options are endless here. Don-t be afraid to experiment with your lover and to show your passion and tenderness. Sincere and passionate kisses are among the best things in life.

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People kiss in many different ways. Passionate kisses, friendly kisses, playful kisses, all these variations depend on the moods and relationships between people. A swift kiss before leaving for work in the morning is very different from the longer kiss that precedes a night of passion. Kissing is fun most of the times and people whom you wouldn-t like to kiss can usually be kept at a distance. This is an act of intimacy that is not easily forced upon somebody.

The best known type of kiss is the French kiss. You can see it in every movie and is probably used by the largest part of young and adult lovers around the world. French kiss means that the two partners kiss with open lips and their tongues touch. I-m not sure if the French have actually been the first to kiss like that, but let-s say the name is a tribute to the city of lovers, Paris. The two partners can use their tongues to explore each other-s mouths. This is actually up to the imagination of the two people involved, since there are far too many ways in which the play of tongues can underscore tenderness and passion.

A good one is the kiss that is meant to surprise and to convey intensity, rather than tenderness. When your lover is working, sleeping or generally absorbed by something, plant a quick kiss on her lips by surprise. Be careful not to spoil the surprise. Kiss her hard (or light) and fast to show her that you love her and that you are in a playful mood. Afterwards you can choose between retreating and leaving her to her business or going for more kisses. A break from work has never hurt anybody.

Another kind of kiss much favored by passionate lovers focuses on the lips instead of the inside of the mouth. This is very much a kiss designed to convey a strong sense of passion and a lack of inhibitions. The basic idea is to suck gently on one of your partner-s lips. Since she is likely to have her mouth slightly open in expectation of a French kiss, this can be easily accomplished. Just pick one of the lips and suck gently on it for a second or two. Make sure you are very gentle about it because injuries are no fun.

A variation of the kiss described above is meant to add yet another twist to the passion that unfolds between you and her. While sucking on your lover-s lip, use your teeth to bite her lip very gently. Just nip on it, don-t go for a full fledged bite. This type kiss should be used by lovers who have kissed before. It-s not exactly the kind of thing one does on the first date.

The options are endless here. Don-t be afraid to experiment with your lover and to show your passion and tenderness. Sincere and passionate kisses are among the best things in life.

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With the basic questions regarding what erogenous zones are out of the way, we can move on to a detailed discussion about the exact location of these zones. From the most obvious and down to the really mysterious ones, we are going to identify all erogenous zones and provide some tips on how to use them. The female body is a precious work of biological engineering and the curiosity of men is never satisfied as to what drives women crazy with desire.

The male body is much simpler in this regard, although it does have its hidden pleasure spots. Pretty much anybody knows how to turn a man on and which are the exact places where men like to be touched, caressed or stroked. Women, however, are different in this aspect. Their bodies feature a bigger number of erogenous zones which the skilled lover can use to make them touch the sky and beg for more.

Finding and stimulating these zones can prove to be simple and complicated at the same time. It-s really simple because anyone can read an article such as this one and learn all there is to learn from a text before moving on to hands-on experience. But it-s also complicated because it takes practice to understand how to use them. Not all women respond to stimulation in the same way and a man must think on his feet to spot which zones work for the woman in question and to change the plan of attack on the fly.

Before we start discussing the zones themselves there-s one thing we should clear up. Contrary to the ideas cherished by some men, erogenous zones are just one of the tools that accomplished or simply adventurous lovers use to increase the passion and pleasure of their ladies. They are not some sort of magic buttons that, once touched, can turn a woman into a sex-crazed creature, eyes shining with lust. They cannot be used to avoid the approach and courtship stages of any relation (one night stands included). So, guys, you-re not off the hook. You must still summon the courage to make the approach and prove your worth at the courtship game.

Much to everybody-s surprise, the biggest concentration of female erogenous zones is not found on the upper body, but, of all places, the feet. Starting with the soles and toes, which can be gently massaged or licked, and moving up to the delightfully sensitive skin of the ankles and the thighs, the feet are one of the sensual hotspots for the knowledgeable lover. Assuming that the lady in question has perfect hygiene, you can caress, lick and kiss as much as you please and if you-re really good, she will love you for it. The skin behind the knees is also a very sensitive location full of nerve endings just waiting to send waves of pleasure to the brain.

The head is the second area where erogenous zones congregate. The lips (also known as first base by many men out there) are, naturally, a very sensitive spot. Then there-s the nape of the neck, the perfect place to plant your kisses and watch passion grow. And while you-re here, you might wish to whisper sweet nothings in her ears and to bite on them lightly. This will show you-re a really good lover.

I don-t have to tell you that the buttocks are one of the erogenous hot spots of the body. Most women love to be touched there and some actually enjoy a light spanking. And, yes, I know that all you guys are dying to squeeze and caress every round and firm pair of buttocks on sight. A shapely ass is a gift from heaven. And if her hands grab your head while she begs for more, take your time to nuzzle her wrists. Bite her lightly and tell her you-re a vampire out for blood and passion.

The breasts are a time-tested erogenous zone and the favorite fondling spot of many men, but you have to be careful about them. Fact is that every woman has erogenous preferences and while men are dying to play with their breasts, some women may not be aroused by this. Women may also be turned off by poor lovers who give the impression that the only things that interest them in a woman is to get as quickly as possible to the breasts and vagina.

And we-ve saved the best for the last- the biggest erogenous zone of the body. The clitoris, vulva, perineum and anus together make up what is probably the biggest hot spot for erotic sensations. This is where you can let your fingers and lips play as much as you like, if the lady has no objections. Get to know this area well because it can be the gate to sex heaven and a man who really knows how to play down there is worth his weight in gold.

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With the basic questions regarding what erogenous zones are out of the way, we can move on to a detailed discussion about the exact location of these zones. From the most obvious and down to the really mysterious ones, we are going to identify all erogenous zones and provide some tips on how to use them. The female body is a precious work of biological engineering and the curiosity of men is never satisfied as to what drives women crazy with desire.

The male body is much simpler in this regard, although it does have its hidden pleasure spots. Pretty much anybody knows how to turn a man on and which are the exact places where men like to be touched, caressed or stroked. Women, however, are different in this aspect. Their bodies feature a bigger number of erogenous zones which the skilled lover can use to make them touch the sky and beg for more.

Finding and stimulating these zones can prove to be simple and complicated at the same time. It-s really simple because anyone can read an article such as this one and learn all there is to learn from a text before moving on to hands-on experience. But it-s also complicated because it takes practice to understand how to use them. Not all women respond to stimulation in the same way and a man must think on his feet to spot which zones work for the woman in question and to change the plan of attack on the fly.

Before we start discussing the zones themselves there-s one thing we should clear up. Contrary to the ideas cherished by some men, erogenous zones are just one of the tools that accomplished or simply adventurous lovers use to increase the passion and pleasure of their ladies. They are not some sort of magic buttons that, once touched, can turn a woman into a sex-crazed creature, eyes shining with lust. They cannot be used to avoid the approach and courtship stages of any relation (one night stands included). So, guys, you-re not off the hook. You must still summon the courage to make the approach and prove your worth at the courtship game.

Much to everybody-s surprise, the biggest concentration of female erogenous zones is not found on the upper body, but, of all places, the feet. Starting with the soles and toes, which can be gently massaged or licked, and moving up to the delightfully sensitive skin of the ankles and the thighs, the feet are one of the sensual hotspots for the knowledgeable lover. Assuming that the lady in question has perfect hygiene, you can caress, lick and kiss as much as you please and if you-re really good, she will love you for it. The skin behind the knees is also a very sensitive location full of nerve endings just waiting to send waves of pleasure to the brain.

The head is the second area where erogenous zones congregate. The lips (also known as first base by many men out there) are, naturally, a very sensitive spot. Then there-s the nape of the neck, the perfect place to plant your kisses and watch passion grow. And while you-re here, you might wish to whisper sweet nothings in her ears and to bite on them lightly. This will show you-re a really good lover.

I don-t have to tell you that the buttocks are one of the erogenous hot spots of the body. Most women love to be touched there and some actually enjoy a light spanking. And, yes, I know that all you guys are dying to squeeze and caress every round and firm pair of buttocks on sight. A shapely ass is a gift from heaven. And if her hands grab your head while she begs for more, take your time to nuzzle her wrists. Bite her lightly and tell her you-re a vampire out for blood and passion.

The breasts are a time-tested erogenous zone and the favorite fondling spot of many men, but you have to be careful about them. Fact is that every woman has erogenous preferences and while men are dying to play with their breasts, some women may not be aroused by this. Women may also be turned off by poor lovers who give the impression that the only things that interest them in a woman is to get as quickly as possible to the breasts and vagina.

And we-ve saved the best for the last- the biggest erogenous zone of the body. The clitoris, vulva, perineum and anus together make up what is probably the biggest hot spot for erotic sensations. This is where you can let your fingers and lips play as much as you like, if the lady has no objections. Get to know this area well because it can be the gate to sex heaven and a man who really knows how to play down there is worth his weight in gold.

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Now we are at the final part of the guide to female erogenous zones. This is where you are going to learn about the different stimulation techniques that make women moan in ecstasy. Let-s face it- any accomplished lover simply has to learn and master these techniques if he is to earn the admiration and love of women and the envy of less skilled men. The study of erogenous zones teaches the good student exactly what works and why and enables him to make up new techniques on the fly, as the situation requires.

The biggest problem with sex is that people, whether men or women, tend to assume that their partners like the same things that they do. Men love to have their penises touched, fondled and sucked any time, provided a five seconds notice is given. With women it-s different. They don-t like to have their genitals touched just like that. Women are not ready for action at the drop of a hat and do not like it when men move right to the main course without bothering to get the lady properly aroused.

So the basic idea is to get the woman into the right mood by playing on all the sensitive spots that we have discussed before. After the usual wining and dining, or whatever your approach is, check to see if the lady is willing and go into the foreplay mode. I know that some men find foreplay boring and useless and like to think that driving her home should be considered part of it. But they are missing all the fun that ladies love the most. Foreplay is all about exploration, pleasure and building up the passion. It-s a primer for sex. Lying on the couch in the same position for 10 minutes and kissing is bad foreplay. Asking the lady if she would teach you how to please her by masturbating in front of you is hot foreplay.

The only thing that you cannot learn from articles and books is how to judge the individual situations. This you will have to learn yourself. For instance, many women like to be kissed all over, but if you make it look like something you do only out of obligation, then you-re spoiling everything. Some women like to see that they can drive men crazy with their bodies, but don-t be focus solely on her body. It will insult her intelligence. If something you do is not working, change it as soon as possible. Don-t spend a minute kissing a spot that the woman doesn-t care about. And if she tells you to stop in a serious manner, don-t assume that she-s joking. Stop whatever it is you-re doing and talk to her.

Always read the body signs. The three things you can do to any erogenous zone are to kiss it, lick it or caress it. Her body will tell you if she likes what you-re doing and how you-re doing it. She-ll try to guide you toward getting the best stimulation possible, but she won-t use words every time. Go with her hands when she-s pushing you toward a certain spot. Maybe that squirming is not pleasure but an attempt to get a better position or to change your angle of approach so try to guess what she-s trying to do and move accordingly.

Learn all you can from these articles and then go and experiment everything. Be firm, but not pushy, be in control, but not domineering, be attentive, but not bookish and be gentle, but not a pushover. And don-t forget to enjoy yourself while giving her a lot of pleasure. Otherwise it has no use, has it?

Click here to read more sex related articles.

Now we are at the final part of the guide to female erogenous zones. This is where you are going to learn about the different stimulation techniques that make women moan in ecstasy. Let-s face it- any accomplished lover simply has to learn and master these techniques if he is to earn the admiration and love of women and the envy of less skilled men. The study of erogenous zones teaches the good student exactly what works and why and enables him to make up new techniques on the fly, as the situation requires.

The biggest problem with sex is that people, whether men or women, tend to assume that their partners like the same things that they do. Men love to have their penises touched, fondled and sucked any time, provided a five seconds notice is given. With women it-s different. They don-t like to have their genitals touched just like that. Women are not ready for action at the drop of a hat and do not like it when men move right to the main course without bothering to get the lady properly aroused.

So the basic idea is to get the woman into the right mood by playing on all the sensitive spots that we have discussed before. After the usual wining and dining, or whatever your approach is, check to see if the lady is willing and go into the foreplay mode. I know that some men find foreplay boring and useless and like to think that driving her home should be considered part of it. But they are missing all the fun that ladies love the most. Foreplay is all about exploration, pleasure and building up the passion. It-s a primer for sex. Lying on the couch in the same position for 10 minutes and kissing is bad foreplay. Asking the lady if she would teach you how to please her by masturbating in front of you is hot foreplay.

The only thing that you cannot learn from articles and books is how to judge the individual situations. This you will have to learn yourself. For instance, many women like to be kissed all over, but if you make it look like something you do only out of obligation, then you-re spoiling everything. Some women like to see that they can drive men crazy with their bodies, but don-t be focus solely on her body. It will insult her intelligence. If something you do is not working, change it as soon as possible. Don-t spend a minute kissing a spot that the woman doesn-t care about. And if she tells you to stop in a serious manner, don-t assume that she-s joking. Stop whatever it is you-re doing and talk to her.

Always read the body signs. The three things you can do to any erogenous zone are to kiss it, lick it or caress it. Her body will tell you if she likes what you-re doing and how you-re doing it. She-ll try to guide you toward getting the best stimulation possible, but she won-t use words every time. Go with her hands when she-s pushing you toward a certain spot. Maybe that squirming is not pleasure but an attempt to get a better position or to change your angle of approach so try to guess what she-s trying to do and move accordingly.

Learn all you can from these articles and then go and experiment everything. Be firm, but not pushy, be in control, but not domineering, be attentive, but not bookish and be gentle, but not a pushover. And don-t forget to enjoy yourself while giving her a lot of pleasure. Otherwise it has no use, has it?

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Curiosity, information, learning and experience are the best tools for perfecting your skills as a lover who can drive ladies wild. Still, these tools can only take you so far if you don-t try to acquire more knowledge by exploration and observation. It-s pretty strange to think about it, especially with all the porn floating around the Internet, but a lot of men have never taken a good look at a woman-s vagina. Never! All they-ve ever seen was a flash of pink among the pubic hairs. Small wonder that some men are clueless when it comes to finding a woman-s clitoris and know next to nothing about the erogenous zones.

To be fair, some men are indeed exceedingly shy. They feel lucky enough when they-re able to convince a lady to go to bed with them and are not in the mood for exploration and experimentation. Moreover, others think (and with good reason, too, as far as I know) that women might not share their curiosity, or may even take an attempt to expand one-s experience as proof of weirdness or inexperience (-Haven-t you seen a pussy before?- – can you answer -No- to such a question?). It takes a smooth talker to get out of this kind of situation and shy men are not known for being smooth talkers.

Then there-s the -I-m not going down there! It-s disgusting!- crowd. Guys, if you expect oral sex from your ladies, it-s only fair to bite the bullet and reciprocate. Besides, you shouldn-t judge the experience before you actually try it. Many men thought they were only going to do it out of fairness and were very surprised to find that it wasn-t half as bad as it had seemed. If your lady is careful about her hygiene and if you can keep an open mind about it, close-up exploration of your lady-s private parts may prove to be very good fun indeed.

Still other men are simply not interested in getting a good look. That-s their opinion and we should respect it even if many of us can-t agree with it. Others are really curious, but they think that getting on all fours and doing this is beneath them. It-s amazing that men would rather rely on rumors, hearsay and myths or simply expect information to fall into their laps. The -If I have to do all the work, then it-s not worth it- approach is not exactly the best way for those who want to sharpen their bedroom skills.

Whether lying in bed in order to share an intimate moment of peace or to get ready for a hot session of sex, bring the conversation around to masturbation. If the lady is doing it and not shy to talk about her solitary practices, then ask her to show you what she-s doing. Chances are she-s focusing on the clitoris and so you-ll get a good look not only at the pleasure center itself, but also at the proper stimulation technique. But remember to be gentle about this topic. If the lady is not inclined to share the details with you or is not into masturbation, change the topic.

Your main targets in that area are the clitoris and the perineum. These are the hidden erogenous zones that cannot be easily accessed, but which are very important to a student of the erotic arts. The clitoris is a highly sensitive area, which is responsible for most female orgasms because, unlike the penis, the clitoris has no other function except to give pleasure. Vaginal orgasms are significantly less common than clitoral orgasms and, for many women, not nearly as good. One trick that you may be able to use to your advantage, if you can pull it off, is to have the woman give you a guided tour of her private parts. You-d be amazed at what people are willing to discuss with enough coaxing.

If you have to find your own way around, then here-s the layout. The clitoris is located directly above the junction of the two inner lips (labia minora). If you use your fingers to gently separate the lips (you will want to keep your fingernails cut very short), the little rosebud or its hood should become apparent. The clitoris is either fully or partially covered by a hood- this aspect different from one woman to another. You can use your fingers or lips on the clitoris, but be very gentle. If the woman says the sensation is too intense to bear, pull back and don-t argue about it.

The perineum is an area you are most likely to have to learn about on your own. It is located between the lower junction of the labia minora and the anus. This area is also highly sensitive and, along with the anus, can be stimulated in order to obtain a pleasure response. And the response is not limited to women- men also enjoy a finger pressing on their perineum, especially during ejaculation. It is known to enhance pleasure so feel free to experiment with this part of your body.

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Curiosity, information, learning and experience are the best tools for perfecting your skills as a lover who can drive ladies wild. Still, these tools can only take you so far if you don-t try to acquire more knowledge by exploration and observation. It-s pretty strange to think about it, especially with all the porn floating around the Internet, but a lot of men have never taken a good look at a woman-s vagina. Never! All they-ve ever seen was a flash of pink among the pubic hairs. Small wonder that some men are clueless when it comes to finding a woman-s clitoris and know next to nothing about the erogenous zones.

To be fair, some men are indeed exceedingly shy. They feel lucky enough when they-re able to convince a lady to go to bed with them and are not in the mood for exploration and experimentation. Moreover, others think (and with good reason, too, as far as I know) that women might not share their curiosity, or may even take an attempt to expand one-s experience as proof of weirdness or inexperience (-Haven-t you seen a pussy before?- – can you answer -No- to such a question?). It takes a smooth talker to get out of this kind of situation and shy men are not known for being smooth talkers.

Then there-s the -I-m not going down there! It-s disgusting!- crowd. Guys, if you expect oral sex from your ladies, it-s only fair to bite the bullet and reciprocate. Besides, you shouldn-t judge the experience before you actually try it. Many men thought they were only going to do it out of fairness and were very surprised to find that it wasn-t half as bad as it had seemed. If your lady is careful about her hygiene and if you can keep an open mind about it, close-up exploration of your lady-s private parts may prove to be very good fun indeed.

Still other men are simply not interested in getting a good look. That-s their opinion and we should respect it even if many of us can-t agree with it. Others are really curious, but they think that getting on all fours and doing this is beneath them. It-s amazing that men would rather rely on rumors, hearsay and myths or simply expect information to fall into their laps. The -If I have to do all the work, then it-s not worth it- approach is not exactly the best way for those who want to sharpen their bedroom skills.

Whether lying in bed in order to share an intimate moment of peace or to get ready for a hot session of sex, bring the conversation around to masturbation. If the lady is doing it and not shy to talk about her solitary practices, then ask her to show you what she-s doing. Chances are she-s focusing on the clitoris and so you-ll get a good look not only at the pleasure center itself, but also at the proper stimulation technique. But remember to be gentle about this topic. If the lady is not inclined to share the details with you or is not into masturbation, change the topic.

Your main targets in that area are the clitoris and the perineum. These are the hidden erogenous zones that cannot be easily accessed, but which are very important to a student of the erotic arts. The clitoris is a highly sensitive area, which is responsible for most female orgasms because, unlike the penis, the clitoris has no other function except to give pleasure. Vaginal orgasms are significantly less common than clitoral orgasms and, for many women, not nearly as good. One trick that you may be able to use to your advantage, if you can pull it off, is to have the woman give you a guided tour of her private parts. You-d be amazed at what people are willing to discuss with enough coaxing.

If you have to find your own way around, then here-s the layout. The clitoris is located directly above the junction of the two inner lips (labia minora). If you use your fingers to gently separate the lips (you will want to keep your fingernails cut very short), the little rosebud or its hood should become apparent. The clitoris is either fully or partially covered by a hood- this aspect different from one woman to another. You can use your fingers or lips on the clitoris, but be very gentle. If the woman says the sensation is too intense to bear, pull back and don-t argue about it.

The perineum is an area you are most likely to have to learn about on your own. It is located between the lower junction of the labia minora and the anus. This area is also highly sensitive and, along with the anus, can be stimulated in order to obtain a pleasure response. And the response is not limited to women- men also enjoy a finger pressing on their perineum, especially during ejaculation. It is known to enhance pleasure so feel free to experiment with this part of your body.

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